Child Therapy for Kids Under 12 in Thornhill and Vaughan
Child therapy helps kids under 12 make sense of big feelings, worries and behaviour through play, art, music and short, age-appropriate conversations. Parents are part of the process, and we offer appointments at our Thornhill clinic or by video for families elsewhere in the province, including evenings and Sundays.
- Under 12
- Art and music
- Parents involved
- Evenings, Sundays
Or call (289) 579-4769. In person in Thornhill, virtual across Ontario.

Signs your child could use support
Young children rarely announce "I'm struggling." Trouble tends to surface in behaviour, bedtime or play before words. Mothers and fathers often contact us after spotting patterns like these:
- Meltdowns have grown longer, louder or more frequent, and the soothing tricks that once helped have stopped helping.
- Drop-off at school, daycare or a birthday party ends in crying or clinging, even after weeks of practice.
- Tummy aches, headaches or trouble settling at bedtime keep returning, and the doctor has not found a medical cause.
- Your child plays by themselves at recess, insists nobody likes them, or keeps mentioning the same unkind classmates.
- A major event, such as a new sibling, moving house, a separation or a death in the family, still weighs on them months later.
- Their teacher has raised concerns about focus, hitting, or following classroom routines.
- They have slipped back into habits they had outgrown, like bedwetting or baby talk, or their pretend play keeps replaying the same scary scene.
All kids go through wobbly stretches. If several of these have lasted a month or more, or they are disrupting kindergarten or class, playdates or family life, it makes sense to get a professional opinion. When worry is the main thread, read about our anxiety therapy for kids. When focus, restlessness and impulsivity stand out, look at ADHD therapy.
Ages we work with
Child therapy covers toddlers up to the 12th birthday. The younger the child, the more often a parent is in the room.
Under 6
Toddlers and preschoolers come with a parent. Sessions are play-based and focus on the bond between you and your child, using child-centred play therapy, Theraplay-style activities and parent coaching.
Ages 6 to 11
School-age kids usually spend most of the hour with the therapist on their own, and a parent joins near the end. Games, drawing and puppets make room for naming feelings, calming the body and solving playground problems.
12 and older
Kids heading into middle school or secondary school can move to teen therapy, which gives them more independence and a bigger voice in planning.
Some children also need help with the physical side of daily life, like handwriting, getting dressed, sensory overload or switching between activities. Our occupational therapy for kids in Thornhill can run alongside counselling. For bedtime battles, defiance and the parenting side of things, parent coaching gives you a plan for home.

How child therapy works here
Most young children cannot sit and describe their week, so sessions are built around the way kids actually communicate: through play, movement and making things.

- 1
The free call
Fifteen minutes on the phone with our intake staff. Describe what is happening at home and in class, and we will recommend a clinician whose experience and schedule match your child. A doctor's note is not required.
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A parent intake
Plenty of families begin with an appointment for parents alone. The clinician covers your child's development, health, schooling, peer relationships and what you have already attempted, which spares your child from retelling painful details.
- 3
Your child's first visit
The therapist gets to know your child through play, with no pressure to talk about problems. The aim of this first visit is simply for your child to feel at ease in the room.
- 4
A regular session
50 minutes. Little ones might use a sand tray, puppets or paints to express what they cannot yet put into words. Kids who light up when they make something can work with a clinician trained in art therapy or music therapy, where drawing, rhythm and songwriting carry the conversation. Bigger kids add simple cognitive behavioural tools such as a worry thermometer, coping cards and belly breathing. Many appointments finish with a short debrief so the parent knows what to practise.
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Your role between appointments
Home life matters as much as the hour in the playroom. Expect brief updates, ideas for routines and phrases for tense moments, and an occasional parent-only meeting when that is more useful than another play visit.
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Fitting it around school
Most children come once a week to begin with. Evening slots run until 9 pm Monday to Thursday, Fridays end at 3 pm, and Sundays run from 9 to 9, which helps with pickups, lessons and sports.
Children progress at their own speed, so the number of visits varies. Every few weeks you and the clinician review what has shifted and agree whether to carry on, try another approach or pause.
Therapists who work with children
Each bio lists the ages and concerns that clinician sees. Share a little about your child on the phone and we will recommend a match. See the full team.
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Fees and insurance
Child session
$185 / 50 min
Your child with their therapist
Parent coaching
$185 / 50 min
Parents only, without your child
Occupational therapy
$195 / 50 min
At the clinic. Home visits $215
We don't direct bill. We provide detailed receipts you can submit for reimbursement. Most workplace plans cover Registered Psychotherapists and Registered Social Workers.
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What parents want to know about child therapy
How can I tell whether my child needs therapy?
What does child therapy cost, and is it covered by benefits?
Can young children do therapy online?
What is the difference between child therapy and play therapy?
My child won't talk about feelings. Is there any point?
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Does my child need a diagnosis or a referral to begin?
What should I tell my child before the first visit?
What should we do if our child is unsafe right now?
Areas we serve in person for child therapy
In-person from our Thornhill clinic and virtually across Ontario. Click any city to learn more.
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Reviewed by Daniela Shulman, MSW, RSW, Clinical Director. Last updated .
Not sure what your child needs yet?
Start with a short call and describe what you are noticing in class and with family. We will walk through the options, including whether to begin with your child, with you, or both.
Or call (289) 579-4769










